![]() By Evelynn Malakowsky It is 7:44 am on a Saturday morning, the day before mother’s day. To start off the day the first words my 2 year old son uttered were, “Mommy, I hear the birds,” embracing me with his snuggles and in return I kissed his forehead. As I wiped and swept up the muffin crumbs that exploded in the kitchen and made its way to the living room mysteriously, I wondered if God will bless our family with another child growing in my womb. The longing for another baby seems to keep its little tug on my heart, even as I think, “how in the world can we stay up all night again?!” Deeply reminded that I need to focus on my health if that were to be so, in prayer I asked God if he would have it in our family’s future to adopt and if I have already heard his answer on that. I washed dishes as my busy bundle of blessings built a fort with every blanket in the house, and, for the most part, with cordial team work. With Mother’s day on my mind and the call to embrace the role of a mother, I am reminded of the precious reality that as we take our journey through life with Christ, our children have been gifted to us. There is also an entrusted calling to give them Jesus, all of him, all of his love, all of his affection, all of his truth. Years ago, as we were just beginning growing our family and serving in ministry, I often struggled with “having to miss study nights” because I needed to nurse, chase my toddler outside or go home early to put my daughter to bed. It was a season where I often felt isolated and a deep sadness, loneliness and resentment started to well up in my heart. There were times when our living room was filled with families from our neighborhood and we would have crafts, guitar lessons, 'drama rama’ and so much more. The passion for children to experience our amazing Lord and how he has changed my husband and I could not be put in a box never to be expressed. In the midst of that season of serving, so grand and God’s work visible among us, the Lord reminded me that out of all the people in the world I express him to, of utmost importance should be my daughter, the very precious, sweet person he has entrusted me with. I began to unpack deeper and deeper the call to motherhood. That even though I couldn’t always participate in the most magnificent outreach events I could reveal a real and loving God to my children. It takes one disciple to make a difference. What if I raised 3? What if they rise up to be missionaries, pastors, worship leaders, lovers of Christ in their work places, friends in high school that change another child’s life? It can be easy to be pulled into being stagnant and not offering more of ourselves or our families to serve Christ and on the other end allow ourselves or our families to become so busy with life, or even busy with serving, that we miss the little gifts God desires for us to impact as well. Its now 8:12…We had breakfast, the kids got into a scuffle, all the furniture is moved, clothes are everywhere as they dressed up for their imaginary play. I still have not combed my hair or brushed my teeth and the song by Audrey Assad, “Good to Me,” plays in the background. Embracing the words from the chorus…. “You are Good to me, Good to me, Your goodness and mercy shall follow me all my life, I trust in your promise ” and I stop washing dishes to raise my hands up high to the king. I thank him for spit up that fell into my eye when my youngest was a newborn and how I called the doctor frantically asking if I was going to get pink eye. I thank God for the stomach bug we had last week and pray we NEVER EVER go through that again, I thank God for the days my kids throw themselves in full on melt downs, ask me to read a book when I just want to end the night with a chat with my husband. I thank him for the walk down the sidewalk with video recorder in hand as my daughter walks off with her kindergarten teacher the new person I will trust being with my baby longer than myself. I thank him for the milk spills, ripped clothes for myself so I can stay home with them as preschoolers. I thank him for singing worship songs with them in the car and how they minister to my heart, their love to read the Action Bible, their decisions to follow him and be baptized, their desire to serve him in A2J, MOPS, everywhere and anywhere else we go. I thank him for the calling to be a mother.
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Ryan Thurman
5/7/2016 10:28:40 am
beautifully written Evelynn! Thanks for sharing with us
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Anna Dufek
5/7/2016 09:48:18 pm
My sweet sister in Christ and beloved friend, I am so proud of the way you are sharing your heart. I know it took courage. I am also so proud of the way you have embraced motherhood, loving consistently and humbly. Remembering the times I have seen you calmly and sincerely tell a screaming toddler, "I love you," I see such a picture of God's heart for His kids, even in the midst of our tantrums. You were not given an easy assignment but you have stewarded your children with patience and reverence, putting all your weight on the Lord to carry you. You are amazing! You are present to those in front of you, and your listening ear and your sincere prayers have blessed my life so much. You are courageous. You are faithful, and God has not missed a single dish washed or nose wiped. He is so proud of you. And so am I. Much love!
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Melanye Wrighton
5/7/2016 05:11:50 pm
Evelyn, your mother's heart shows through and through your sweet and messy stories of nurturing those tender hearts ~ and how their little lives, spit up and all, nurture YOUR heart right back! And you honestly bless our Lord with all your words of thanksgiving, even for the crummy stuff! LOVE it! Keep writing! Hold Dan's hand and carry on, dear momma!
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Noleen Thurman
5/7/2016 06:58:41 pm
Love you sister, love your heart!
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Christina
5/11/2016 02:23:26 am
Evelynn, you are a true women of God a virtuous woman reflecting the love of our Lord. Your blog was such a blessing to read I pray that you will continue to share more blogs in the future. Loves you much!
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